Good conversation equals GOLD! Conversation is just as important as being a good dancer and looking fabulous. In fact, it might be more important! The purpose of conversation in the strip club is first to get the client to spend money. You need to be more than just a pretty face. You need to talk the talk to keep him spending on you!
No customer wants to listen to you complain about your shitty life or boyfriend problems! If you are whining and complaining, you are doing it wrong! Your customer might be polite enough to listen but is he enjoying himself?
Ask questions and his life, what is important to him?
Is there a convention or special event in town? – do some research! You will be surprised how the smallest knowledge about something that interests them impress. What major sporting event or current affair can you found out more about?
Actively Listen! Show that you are listening by nodding and be impressed. Show genuine interest in what he says and make him feel significant. Make eye contact and give him your undivided attention. Don’t look around the club or look at your phone and never ever look bored!
Laugh because laughter contagious but so yawning! Bored people are boring. People are looking for more fun not boredom! Be informed about things and what is happening and Remember to have fun! We all just want to have “interesting” fun!
The secret is to create sense of intimacy, intrigue him and build that “connection” that makes him want to stay all night with you. Don’t underestimate the power of eye contact, body language, touch and tone of voice.
Remember the customer’s name and use it. No one want to feel like a receipt. Ask his advice and let him know you are impressed. Give compliments and make him feel validated, important, special and appreciated.
Looking good and being a good dancer is important, but always Remember good fun and interesting conversation will connect you to the gold. Good conversation equals GOLD!
Strippers often arrive for their first day on the job miserably broke. They spend your last coins on the bus or they buy a drink at the bar to boost their confidence with your last R20.
The next day they are walking on sunshine, while ordering juicy steak and expensive Champagne for breakfast; just because they can! Dancers always make more money, then most people eventually.
When you become a stripper, the first night you dance you make R2000 in your first two hours. You have made more money than you have ever made in your life, for the hours worked. You are the dancing queen! The Queen of the night!
Then you get better and you make R4000. Suddenly R2000 was not worth getting out of bed for. Then you make your first R10 000 in one night. R4000 a night becomes annoying …..
Suddenly you discover, what the other girls are making. This adds fire and becomes a burning issue. You get frustrated even angry because you are on R3000 for that night, and you suspect some of the others dancers have made more than R6000. You like a tiger on the prowl searching for your next victim!
The competition is fierce between strippers. But not in the way that many would assume. Dancers learn early on in their careers; being the thinnest, prettiest, or the most intelligent girl in the club does not define you or your success. What defines you in the stripper world is "It is how much money did you make? "
The sole driving force of girls entering the industry is;" how much money did you make?"
The deal-breaker is your ability to leave the club with a bag full of cash. Strippers earn excessively more, than your average civilians working the same hours. The good nights are what truly makes stripping the sexiest job in the world because every day is pay day! Like life in the real world, not every night can be a good night, but when it is good; it is gold!
Chris is a passionate supporter of the strip dance industry, as a way of empowering women. He believes the strip tease industry is creating a better future for families, businesses and society in general. Chris loves taking on new challenges that drive a positive change. He loves helping people to be the best they can and make the most of their lives.