 A good stripper always makes sure she looks your best and invest in your appearance. You don’t need to be the best-looking girl in the club, but you do need to carry yourself like you are the best. It is about being polished,sexy and presentable.
You don’t need to be the best dancer or great on the pole, but you need to be entertaining. You need to be comfortable with your body and enjoy the art of being an exhibitionist and be comfortable getting naked in front of others. Strippers have assets not issues! A good stripper is a super salesperson. They have incredible sales skills and have excellent social skills. Stripping is the art of the hustle. The best hustlers rule in the stripping world. A good stripper is fit and can handle working long hours. Dancing and talking for an 8-hour shift can be exhausting, and it is crucial, that you can keep your energy levels up through the night. If you look good, comfortable with your body, a hot hustler, and have high vitality; your chances of being a success stripper is extremely high!
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 Cape Town is an amazing city, where the strip club industry is booming! This has created high demand strippers, Pole dancers and exotic dancers. Many stripper/ exotic / pole dancers from all over the world are working and enjoy the fabulous lifestyle in Cape Town; South Africa.
Cape Town has an exclusive upmarket business community and a steady flow of wealthy tourist. Business and pleasure blend easily with a steady stream of "BIG SPENDERS." Cape Town is a SAFE world class tourist destination winning many international tourism awards with business and high-end tourists traveling here every year. Cape Town is a popular city for exotic dancers because they can make money all year. There is an exclusive, upmarket business community and a continuous steady flow of wealthy tourists. Business and pleasure blend easily; with a steady stream of “BIG SPENDERS” especially in the award-winning, popular, tourist destination of Cape Town. In Cape Town, the clubs are busiest in the summer months because it is a popular, holiday and tourist destination. Cape Town is at its busiest from November to March and a popular destination for international Girls. They chose Cape Town because the money is good, and Cape Town is an incredibly beautiful City with Table Mountain and amazing beaches. Making money while enjoying the African summer sun during the European winter, is a good decision for business and pleasure. Exotic Dancers also make good money during the off-peak season in Cape Town. Many dancers prefer to work in the quieter months because there is less competition. The clubs are quieter but there is still money to be made from the local business community. South Africa used to be an extremely conservative country and the stripping industry had a negative stigma. Today, this has changed, and more and more people are embracing the art of stripping. Strip clubs have become a great place to go for fun and entertainment. The stigma has been removed and strip clubs are being frequented by all walks of life; not just horny or lonely men. It has become more and more common, for couples to visit the strip clubs for a different experience and some fun. Often groups of straight girls will visit a strip club for a wild, girls’ night out. Guys will openly brag they were at a strip club the night before. This was not the case a few years back. The flood of international professional strippers has raised the standards in the South African stripping industry. The local dancers have been forced to improve their skills on the pole and learn how to compete in a competitive market. Pole dancing studios have become popular with local girls for fun, to keep fit, and perhaps to enable them to become a professional dancer! The stigma attached to stripping is stripping away in South Africa. The new generation of South African knows that to be a stripper, you need to beautiful, talented, and courageous. Strippers have become an enigma that are admired and respected. Exclusive Dance Recruitment assist international exotic dancers and strippers, by connecting them to upmarket strip clubs in South Africa. Exclusive Dance Recruitment to ensure the dancers have a pleasant and profitable adventure, while visiting beautiful South Africa.  At Exclusive Dance Recruitment we experienced many situation, every excuse, every problem and incredible success story. We have seen exotic dancers make a BIG money from dancing, but remember the career has a limited number of years attached to it!
There are two categories of dancers; The Amateur and The Professional. The amateur dancer just works enough to get by. She never saves any money and she has have any money. These girls work hard enough to make the rent and support their party lifestyle. They always under pressure to make this week’s levy because they blow all their money on partying and buying expensive toys. Every week it is the same story they stress all week, panicking about money but work just hard enough to pay rent and any money left over is flushed down the toilet partying. Every week they blow their BIG money on partying, doing drugs, buying expensive clothes, and wasting all their money with absolutely no regard for their future. An Amateur Dancer spends all her BIG money on liabilities. They survive and lives day to day, week to week. Hoping from club to club with no plan and no direction. They live just for today, with no regards for tomorrow. A Professional dancer invest money and time in to her Business. She invests in assets! She invests in her customs, shoes, make up, outfits, and accessories. The professional dancer visits the gym regularly and works on her skills as a dancer. She is well groomed and always looks good. She invests in herself and her future. The professional dancer has goals and direction. She has an exit strategy. She knows she can’t work in the industry as a dancer for ever and she plans for her future. She is always saving and investing. When you are making a BIG money every day, it is easy to take it for granted. If you don’t plan, you may struggle to make the BIG amounts of money every day, once you have stopped dancing. You need to be smart and SAVE and INVEST as much of it as you can. You can live the life of your dreams when you are patient and plan for your future. Don’t flush your good fortune down the toilet. Build a cushion to absorb your ups and downs. You will have weeks when business is great and weeks when you struggle to make the rent. Be prepared for the rainy days. The Amateur dancer struggles through her fortune as it she flushes she future down the toilet, living a pray that one will come and save her. A professional dancer invests and plans for the long term. They have 5 years plans some have and 10 plans. They have goals and they have direction. Be a professional. Life is better when you are a professional.  The number one reason why men and some women visit strip club is to experience a “fantasy world” away from the stresses of their work and home life. They want an escape from reality!
Most men that frequent strip clubs are successful and hard-working men! The strip club environment offers them a safe space to escape and relax. The majority of regulars at a strip clubs; are there because they enjoy the “social” interactions with beautiful, sexually open, women; who are there to satisfy to their needs. Some men visit the club because they are “socially awkward”. Some men struggle with social interactions; especially with beautiful women. The strip club gives them an opportunity to engage with sexually attractive women without the same social fears or the feeling of rejection. Some of these men struggle to get a normal date never mind getting to spend time with their “Dream girl”! Strip clubs are where dreams come true. Guys get to spend time with their dream girl is a real fantasy world. Many men that visit strip clubs are married. Strip clubs allow them to have fun with a woman or many women without the demands of their wives or partners. You may be surprised to know that sexual fantasy is not the primary reason many men visit strip clubs. Many strippers make their biggest money, from men, for engaging in an intelligent and authentic conversation. Some men pay dancers thousands, just to have them listen to them or give them backrubs for a couple of hours; every week! They crave appreciation and validation. A small minority of men who visit strip clubs have physical disabilities, from missing limbs to being wheel chair bound. They are usually intelligent and crave women attention, affection and sexual stimulation. These men love exotic dancer because they are open and sexually comfortable with them. Strippers perform lap dances on their wheelchairs and embrace these men in the club environment in a way that they probably don’t experience in the real world. A significant number of women frequent female strip clubs! Some that women and including many straight women; are turned on and fascinated by strip clubs! The fascination many women have about strippers suggest that there is very real deeper longing to express unself-conscious and sexual expression. A strip club give women a safe space to express and appreciate sexual fantasy. There is an intense fascination and fantasy for many women about exotic dancers and the kind of sexual freedom of expression that many women believe they represent! There is a stripper in most girls screaming to come out and play! The men and women who visit strip clubs are diverse and don’t fit into the box or label of out-of-control sexually aggressive males. From bachelor parties, to college boys, to rich men, the socially awkward, physically challenged or curious women strip clubs are harmless and frequented by them all. Strip clubs are colorful part of our culture and history. Viva strip clubs! VIVA!  Most Exotic dancers will pay more attention to a customer who is well dressed in a suit, than a sloppy dressed one. They will invest more time and effort into the well-dressed customer and totally ignore and even be bothered to approach the sloppy one. This is a big mistake! In the exotic dance industry, stereotyping is very dangerous! You will lose out BIG time. Every person who walks through the door is worth approaching, they are in the strip club for a reason. They paid good money to get in so they can’t be absolutely broke! Stop trying to figure customers out before approaching them. Just because someone doesn’t dress well or look wealthy doesn’t mean he hasn’t got money to spend on you. He might just be a very bad dressed millionaire, or just a regular guy with a credit card in spending mood. Everyone is worth talking too. You can make loads of money from customers, who you thought were dirty poor! Just because someone dresses the part as filthy rich (and might as well be) doesn’t mean he is. Strip club are about fantasy and dressing up as a rich guy is living the dream. He may talk the talk, dress the part but he might be a big-time waster. Don’t be fooled by appearance! if the customer is not willing to pay for a drink or dances within a reasonable amount of time he might not be a big spender but a big-time waster. Move on, don’t waste your time and don’t be fooled by appearance! The biggest mistake in the stripper Business is not approaching because you thought …..  Good conversation equals GOLD! Conversation is just as important as being a good dancer and looking fabulous. In fact, it might be more important! The purpose of conversation in the strip club is first to get the client to spend money. You need to be more than just a pretty face. You need to talk the talk to keep him spending on you! No customer wants to listen to you complain about your shitty life or boyfriend problems! If you are whining and complaining, you are doing it wrong! Your customer might be polite enough to listen but is he enjoying himself? Ask questions and his life, what is important to him? Is there a convention or special event in town? – do some research! You will be surprised how the smallest knowledge about something that interests them impress. What major sporting event or current affair can you found out more about? Actively Listen! Show that you are listening by nodding and be impressed. Show genuine interest in what he says and make him feel significant. Make eye contact and give him your undivided attention. Don’t look around the club or look at your phone and never ever look bored! Laugh because laughter contagious but so yawning! Bored people are boring. People are looking for more fun not boredom! Be informed about things and what is happening and Remember to have fun! We all just want to have “interesting” fun! The secret is to create sense of intimacy, intrigue him and build that “connection” that makes him want to stay all night with you. Don’t underestimate the power of eye contact, body language, touch and tone of voice. Remember the customer’s name and use it. No one want to feel like a receipt. Ask his advice and let him know you are impressed. Give compliments and make him feel validated, important, special and appreciated. Looking good and being a good dancer is important, but always Remember good fun and interesting conversation will connect you to the gold. Good conversation equals GOLD!  Strippers often arrive for their first day on the job miserably broke. They spend your last coins on the bus or they buy a drink at the bar to boost their confidence with your last R20.
The next day they are walking on sunshine, while ordering juicy steak and expensive Champagne for breakfast; just because they can! Dancers always make more money, then most people eventually. When you become a stripper, the first night you dance you make R2000 in your first two hours. You have made more money than you have ever made in your life, for the hours worked. You are the dancing queen! The Queen of the night! Then you get better and you make R4000. Suddenly R2000 was not worth getting out of bed for. Then you make your first R10 000 in one night. R4000 a night becomes annoying ….. Suddenly you discover, what the other girls are making. This adds fire and becomes a burning issue. You get frustrated even angry because you are on R3000 for that night, and you suspect some of the others dancers have made more than R6000. You like a tiger on the prowl searching for your next victim! The competition is fierce between strippers. But not in the way that many would assume. Dancers learn early on in their careers; being the thinnest, prettiest, or the most intelligent girl in the club does not define you or your success. What defines you in the stripper world is "It is how much money did you make? " The sole driving force of girls entering the industry is;" how much money did you make?" The deal-breaker is your ability to leave the club with a bag full of cash. Strippers earn excessively more, than your average civilians working the same hours. The good nights are what truly makes stripping the sexiest job in the world because every day is pay day! Like life in the real world, not every night can be a good night, but when it is good; it is gold! Be honest; How many times have you sat in a club and ignored a potential customer because you had approach anxiety; only to have another dancer approach and get the dance? The voices in your head maybe saying; “I don’t know what to say.” “I'll probably get rejected.” “ he does not have money” For newbies strippers; you may not be natural or comfortable approaching people at first. But with practice, you will soon discover that, the enemy is not actually other people. It is you! When you change what you think about other people, then the way think about other people changes. In exotic dancing and in life; Resistance is part of the game. The first thing you need to learn in the stripping game is that rejection is not personal. To be a successful dancer you need to face your fear. To eliminate the fear, you need to do the very thing you fear because most fear is in all in your head. Many new dancers are afraid to approach customers because they fear rejection. Here is a little secret; The customer is expecting you to approach them. When you go to a restaurant, you expect the waiter to approach your table. You get annoyed and complain if the waiter does not assist you. In a strip club the customer is expecting to be approached by dancers. It is normal and an expectation. If you worked as a waitress and you approached a table and asked them if they would like a drink and they said not now, maybe later or we fine thanks, would you be offended? I doubt it. What is the difference? IN a strip club. you approaching is the expectation! You are in a strip club ant that means guys are expecting you to approach them. That is why many men go to strip clubs. They don’t have to approach girls. The girls come to them. That is part of the fantasy. They don’t have to build up the courage or get rejected. They don’t have to do the work that means unfortunately you have to do the work. I have often heard customer complain because no dancers approached them. They came to the club to get a private dance and after 45 minutes not one girl approached them. On the other side of the bar there are a newbie wondering; why she is not making money? She is failing to approach customers because she is afraid of rejection. The good news is the fear of rejection is an irrational fear. If someone rejects your approach are you going to die? No one is watching you approach! No one is judging you and no one cares! They are just as worried about being judged and criticized as you are. When approaching a costumer; Let go of your outcome, of getting the dance or make a money. If you want nothing out of the interaction other than a conversation, you have a 100 percent chance of succeeding as soon as you open your mouth. A rejection is not who you are as a person. It is simply feedback on something you did! Instead of being outcome dependent, be learning dependent. There is no such thing as failure only feedback.In the stripping industry, the only failure is not approaching. There are more customers than you could possibly imagine, that would love to meet someone just like you! Don't worry if you're shy or nervous when approaching; customers will are often be nicer to you because of it. When a customer is rude, and it will happen from time to time. Don’t act as if things are a big deal; it is no big deal! Don’t complain and don’t take it personally. He may have issues or problems bigger than you; that you are not aware off. Always say “pleasure meeting you!” Then move on. Always maintain a positive and open attitude. Here are some Fun come backs you can use When the customer is rude: Wow you tough I am hiring you as a body guard. Basically, if any one touches me and they aren’t on your list you get to throw them out. I like You; You have a hard exterior, but I know you just pretending. Inside you a delicate little softy. Don’t worry your secret is safe with me. That’s it! We are breaking up! Our 15 grandchildren are going be devastated. Most people have been raised to be polite. When your approach is non-threatening, non-needy and you demonstrate value; there is no rational reason for rejection. Shyness is non-threatening, so even if you appear to be shy, you can leverage your shyness to your advantage. We all have shyness alive inside us and your shyness may allow the customer to empathize and he may go out of his way to be nice. Approach with the attitude of “I am a person of value and have something to give” instead of what can I take or I want a dance! When you approach customers, approach as if you don’t want anything, you only want to give them something! When you approach you want to have the same casual attitude as if you were asking for the time or for directions. It is no big deal because you are the prize; you have something to give! It is a numbers game, the more you approaches you make, the greater your success will be. The more approaches you do the easier it becomes. Once you have warmed up, your next approach will be a both fun and stimulating. You miss 100% of the shots you never took! Persistence is the name of the game but don’t confuse persistence with being rude, needy, begging, arguing or being creepy! You don’t like needy desperate people and neither do your customers. Remember life is more fun when you open your mouth! Guys just wants respect. When you give them respect they will respect you too! Remember stripping is a numbers game! Just do it! Because the pain of letting yourself down is much greater; than anything someone else could say. |
Chris is a passionate supporter of the strip dance industry, as a way of empowering women. He believes the strip tease industry is creating a better future for families, businesses and society in general. Chris loves taking on new challenges that drive a positive change. He loves helping people to be the best they can and make the most of their lives. Archives
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