Good conversation equals GOLD! Conversation is just as important as being a good dancer and looking fabulous. In fact, it might be more important! The purpose of conversation in the strip club is first to get the client to spend money. You need to be more than just a pretty face. You need to talk the talk to keep him spending on you!
No customer wants to listen to you complain about your shitty life or boyfriend problems! If you are whining and complaining, you are doing it wrong! Your customer might be polite enough to listen but is he enjoying himself?
Ask questions and his life, what is important to him?
Is there a convention or special event in town? – do some research! You will be surprised how the smallest knowledge about something that interests them impress. What major sporting event or current affair can you found out more about?
Actively Listen! Show that you are listening by nodding and be impressed. Show genuine interest in what he says and make him feel significant. Make eye contact and give him your undivided attention. Don’t look around the club or look at your phone and never ever look bored!
Laugh because laughter contagious but so yawning! Bored people are boring. People are looking for more fun not boredom! Be informed about things and what is happening and Remember to have fun! We all just want to have “interesting” fun!
The secret is to create sense of intimacy, intrigue him and build that “connection” that makes him want to stay all night with you. Don’t underestimate the power of eye contact, body language, touch and tone of voice.
Remember the customer’s name and use it. No one want to feel like a receipt. Ask his advice and let him know you are impressed. Give compliments and make him feel validated, important, special and appreciated.
Looking good and being a good dancer is important, but always Remember good fun and interesting conversation will connect you to the gold. Good conversation equals GOLD!
Chris is a passionate supporter of the strip dance industry, as a way of empowering women. He believes the strip tease industry is creating a better future for families, businesses and society in general. Chris loves taking on new challenges that drive a positive change. He loves helping people to be the best they can and make the most of their lives.